The Shella ship was the fastest ship to navigate the Level Up house, as the two closed in shortly after entering the house. The ship, however, was not without drama. After the butterfly stage, the two began to have multiple disagreements, mostly on Sheggz’s side.
Their first fallout was that Sheggz called Bella out on her selfishness after she cooked a meal she didn’t want to eat. Their next disagreement saw Bella complaining about Sheggz’s rudeness after he flipped on her after dinner once. Sheggz has voiced his disapproval of Bella’s attitude countless times, calling her disrespectful and indifferent. Since then, the two are fine one minute and argue the next. Their ups and downs led to a temporary break on day 44.
Watch Shella’s breakup:
As always, the two reconciled shortly after their split, and today calmly had a productive conversation about the nature of their relationship.
“It’s normal for us to have clashes as we get to know each other,” Sheggz told Bella during their morning bedroom chat. This conversation was sparked by Sheggz telling Bella that he wanted to live free even though he was with her. Bella couldn’t understand what that meant and added that she would express her concern if her freedom didn’t make her feel comfortable, and she should like her to change that behavior.
Their conversation led to a discussion about infidelity. Sheggz informed Bella that he had a lot of girlfriends, but would never cheat on her “anyway”. Bella had previously asked Sheggz to tone down his closeness to her friends, and he agreed. However, he said he changed his mind when he saw how she was doing. Her challenge is Bella’s reluctance to make the necessary changes in her behavior asking her “what should I do about this?” This is especially the case because Sheggz’s response to behavior change requests is, “I’ll deal with this accordingly.”
This lack of reciprocity is a big concern for Sheggz who has repeatedly stated that Bella is always ready to fight and he finds it unnecessary. On Day 46, Rachel and Sheggz locked horns in a food fight, and Bella stepped in and escalated the fight. Sheggz asked him to stay in the room several times if he liked her, but she couldn’t contain her anger.
“You don’t move like someone who deserves it,” Sheggz told Bella of him making changes for her.
What is the way forward?
Sheggz wants them to have a relationship that can grow in stages, and their happiness depends on it. He would like them to love each other and fall in love without it being serious. Their relationship will only be serious when Bella gets to know him well and knows his likes and dislikes. As he’s said before, Bella needs to know what boxes she shouldn’t interfere with when it comes to their ship.
Is Sheggz trying too hard to change Bella? Will their ship last inside and outside the Chamber?
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